20 Tips for The Best Party, EVER
Party planning and hosting can be such a stressful thing, especially when you want your event to be epic! No matter if it is your dream reception or your birthday party – the stress of planning it is real. You want every single detail to be perfect and for all of your guests to be wowed.
Is there a way to plan a party without the worry of it turning into a major #fail? We spoke with Los Angeles Party Planners and searched for the top tips to throw the best party every single time. Check out what the experts say works like magic:
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Make your Guest List Spicy
The people are what make the party a party, so it is vital to have a great Guest List. Don’t be afraid to invite guests from all walks of life and all generations. Having a mixture of people can actually be a good thing. Plus you never know who will make new friends or find their soulmate. Tip: Send out invites with enough time to pencil your party on their calendar.
2. Pump up the Party with Music
Music is the universal language, as you may have heard already. The right music at the right moments can turn any party into a legendary event. You don’t want your guests bored to death with silence or elevator music. Ditch the playlist and hire a live band for your party.
3. Drinks at the Door
Getting a drink on arrival is a classy touch that gets guests lightened up immediately and makes them feel welcome. Whether it is a glass of champagne or a cocktail, drinks at the door is a must. We say “Hit em with a stiff drink!”
4. Hire a Waiter or Two
You are not expected to do everything at your own party if you can help it. Hire a waiter or two for a few hours and kick your party up a notch. Having a waiter take food and drink trays around to guests is never a bad idea and takes a few things off your plate.
5. Dress Code
Any time I get an invite to a party, the first thing that pops into my head (any maybe every other women’s head) “What the heck am I going to wear?” Take the guesswork out and include the dress code on your invite or at least tell guests what is expected to happen at the party so they can plan their outfit accordingly. For instance if you are going to be jumping in the pool, make a note about bikinis and towels. This helps everyone feel comfortable in the event you want to do Black Tie and you don’t want anyone showing up in sweats feeling out of place.
6. Pick a Theme
Themes are a great way to get guests involved and have them step out of their norm for a night. Roaring 20’s, Masquerade, Disco Nights are just to name a few. The more original, more epic your party will be. If you aren’t into costume themes, stick with a color theme. Your theme could totally roll into a Best Dressed Contest for the night!
7. The Right Lights
Good light makes everyone look good. Placing the right lighting at your party can make the difference of your party looking like a scene out of The Craft vs an elegant event. Hire a lighting crew if you need the extra help to set the mood.
8. Relax a little
You do not have to introduce everyone to everyone, it is okay to disappear and let the crowd get to walk around and talk. If you feel inclined to make sure people meet each other, skip to #12.
9. Have Fun
Don’t expect your guests to have fun if you aren’t enjoying yourself. We totally understand that being a good host can be stressful – but you need to have fun at your own party or it wasn’t worth it. Plus if the Host looks unhappy, this is a surefire way to make guests feel awkward.
10. Location Matters
You can have the best band in the world, but if your location is hard to find – you won’t be able to get people through the door. Include directions in your invitations and easy to follow signs at your event location.
11. Never Run out of Food
Having more than enough food and drinks during the party is a no-brainer. Though running out of food could and has happened in the past – and is a major party fail. It sucks being apart of those guests who don’t get to eat!
12. Make Guests Participate
Place disposable cameras around your party and encourage guests to take pictures. Put a bowl of conversation starters at each table, or give prizes to people who partake in a guest scavenger hunt. Check out this Guest Scavenger Hunt idea! This is a great way to break the ice and get guests mingling.
13. Party Bonding
Fondue is not only yummy, but it forces people to gather and connect with other people. Food is a great way to get people to bond. Dessert bars or roasting marshmallows are good ideas for bonding food.
14. Change in Scenery
Set up appetizers in one room and drinks in another, having different areas for certain things makes people rotate around and keeps them entertained longer than having just one room where everything happens.
15. Create a Signature Party Drink
Leave that lasting impression on guests with a specialty drink that is designed just for your party. Check out this great article with tips on how you can create your own signature cocktail: https://thesalonniere.com/signature-cocktail/
16. Flower Power
Fresh flowers go a long way when it comes to party decor and set the tone for every type of event. If you are on a budget, try getting flowers from your local florist and arranging them yourself for centerpieces. No one will ever know that it was a DIY effort.
17. Have a Schedule
Having a schedule of events can make your party roll more smoothly. You don’t have to be on a tight minute by minute schedule, but deciding what happens each hour of your party can help you avoid going crazy. Try announcing the next big event of the hour to keep guests entertained as well as gives guests a reason to hang around longer.
18. Kids Only Area
If you are having kids at your party, set up a special table or area with busy activities for the kids. At a recent wedding I attended the kids had their own table with coloring books and sticker books to keep entertained for as long as possible. This is a great way to give the kids something to do before they convince their parents to leave because they are bored.
19. Offer a Self-Serve Bar
Set up a self serve bar or designated drink stations around the party for simple drink service. Add a special touch by including drink recipes that guests can follow for fun.
20. Perfect Ending
The last 5 mins before your guests leave the party is as important as the first 5 mins while they were at the party. 3-4 hours is the ideal time needed to throw an epic party.
People tend to remember the beginning, the middle and the very end of things. End the night with a bang and leave them on a high note. Tip: Mention to guests that they should not forget their party favors at the door on their way out. This is the equivalent of a goodie bag that kids get at the end of birthday parties.